what winter is asking of you
Hello love, Now, it's starting. The slowing down, the looking in, the inevitable transition from what was and what we no longer want to carry. My home is surrounded by pine trees. Evergreen, so that one could almost forget that winter is coming. Yet everything in my body tells me differently. A whisper getting louder and louder, calling me to sleep and rest and make more realistic choices with my energy. To release survival mode and surround myself with warmth, softness, nourishment. Many of...
about 6 hours ago • 2 min readdo you do this too? *stage fright*
Hello love, A few months ago, I was on a discovery call with a potential coaching client. I wasn't sure yet what type of work we would do together, and I came with an open mind and an open heart, like I usually do. (For me, discovery calls are a true moment of "discovery", not of sales. I show up to understand your needs and orient you the best I can.) After some clarity, we both agreed on the right support for her. She was over the moon and really excited to get started, and so was I to have...
7 days ago • 3 min readthe actual work of listening within
Hello love, Next week, while your inbox fills with emails trying to sell you more stuff, I'll be lighting a candle and hold the space for a quieter, deeper kind of transformation. I’m hosting Untangle Your Money Beliefs: a live, guided workshop for sensitive entrepreneurs who are done looping in guilt, fear, and shame around money. Women who want to finally feel at peace with it. 🗓️ Friday, November 28th at 1pm UK / 2pm CET 🎥 120-minute in-depth session (recording included) 💸 €55 (or €40 with...
21 days ago • 3 min readthe stories your body tells you about money
Hello love, Confession time... I've done a lot of work around my money wounds, but it turns out it's a topic that keeps on giving... Every time I need to have a money conversation, whether I'm asking someone to pay be back, or I'm announcing the price of my services, or something as simple as discussing budget with my husband... my jaw stiffens, my chest tightens and I brace for impact. I've worked on my capacity to trust, to embody abundance, to allow myself to receive. I've studied,...
27 days ago • 3 min readstop pretending, love
This month, I'll be telling you more about the Soulful Biz Club. If you don't want to hear about the coziest most genuine community of sensitive and supportive women online, click here. Hello love, Do you know what causes me immediate anxiety? Feeling trapped in a situation that asks me to perform a certain way, when I feel another way. In other words, when I sense that someone I care about wants me to be a certain way, or to think a certain way, and that's not the case but I'm too terrified...
about 1 month ago • 2 min read🌸 feeling stuck? read this
Hello love, Want to know what I do when I find myself a bit down, discouraged or unmotivated? I think of you. I shift my focus from me, from my fears, my numbers, my messy thoughts, to the people I want to help. And everything softens. The pressure eases. The spark comes back. In reality, every entrepreneur, no matter how grounded or experienced, has days when nothing seems to move. When the doubts are louder than the wisdom. But that feeling doesn’t mean you’re broken. It also doesn’t mean...
about 1 month ago • 2 min readjust tell me what to do and I'll do it
Hello love, "Just tell me what to do and I'll do it." I've said this to partners, therapists, coaches... Prompted Google, my Human Design chart, and more recently ChatGPT. Always looking for answers, for reassurance, for a roadmap on how to make my dreams come true. It's human to crave a blueprint, especially when we're walking in unknown territory. We want safety. We want someone to hand us a map, point to the path, and say, "follow this, it works." Sometimes, it helps. A good framework...
about 2 months ago • 2 min readwho's an introvert here, raise your hand!
Hello love, I’m a big introvert. I love people, but I strongly dislike small talk. I love celebrations, but I avoid parties that involve more than three people. And I feel deeply unsettled when we have family over for a few days. Which means that working online, from my cosy desk, has always felt like the perfect setup for me. No interruptions by noisy colleagues. No chit-chatting that leads nowhere... Just quiet focus, tea by my side, and the satisfaction of creating something meaningful....
about 2 months ago • 2 min readwhen everything feels urgent
Hello love, “ Everything feels urgent. Stomach is tight and buzzing. Migraine on the horizon. Body wants to rest but head is saying we should, we must... people are waiting for me, emails must be written, content published, clients happy, money needs to be made... Sometimes everything is urgent but the only thing that's truly urgent is you. Nurturing you. Taking care of you. Not of another project, not of another person. Of You. And maybe listening to that is the true wisdom. Power and light,...
2 months ago • 1 min readmaybe this quarter isn’t about more
Hello love, I find it fascinating how the (adhd) mind tends to overestimate what we're capable of doing in a short amount of time, but under-estimate the potential of compound efforts & rhythms. So often, when I'm in planning mode, I become so completely disconnected from reality. From what's possible and realistic, but also from what my body craves, what this season is calling me for and that is different than last season. Because not all quarters are meant to be the same. We're not supposed...
2 months ago • 2 min read